To keep your long-term relationship steamy, you need to be more committed towards your partner. Try out some creative ideas and let your family and professional responsibilities go away for some time. Here are some to get you started.
Flashback of Moments You Created Together
The secret of keeping a relationship alive and romantic, even after many years of togetherness, lies in remembering and recreating those lovely moments which you had once spent together. Remember the time when excitement and surprises knew no limitations in your relationship. Reminisce your early days of dating relationship and try to recreate those. Doing this will fill both of you with ecstasy. ‘Looking back’ gives you an opportunity to recollect how you had spent happy days and what kept you strong during your tough times.
Look for Opportunities To Pamper And Spoil Your Partner
Pampering your partner will bring back the fun in your relationship. Shower your partner with gifts or flowers unexpectedly, or you can simply ask him/her an evening to go for a date. Do this when he/she is expects it the least. Give your partner a day off from household responsibilities, let her/him sleep until late and you take charge of kitchen and kids. A movie date minus kids can also turn out to be a perfect surprise gift.
After a few years of relationship with many intimte days spent together, enjoying sex take a backseat due to family and professional obligations. Here comes the need to revive your once-romantic-and-adventurous-relationship. Give your busy schedules a break and make your relationship your priority. Plan a trip together or re-arrange your bedroom to make it look like a hotspot destination. Make your partner go wild on bed with a sexy outfit and passionate foreplay. What about stripping for your partner or watching a porn movie together? How you want to sweep your partner off his/her feet completely depends on what you are comfortable with and excited about.
Speak your heart out
Regular conversation is of utmost importance to keep a relationship intact. Be honest about your feelings and reveal to your partner what you desire from him/her. Sharing your darkest secret will also bring both of you closer, leaving no space for misunderstandings. Confide in him/her about the things your relationship lacks and what you are willing to do to regain the lost spontaneity. Also, be communicative while indulging in sex. Talks at this time need not necessarily be dirty; but incorporating some sexy commentary and encouraging words will help you to seduce your partner. Let your partner know how you feel when you both are together and what you enjoy the most in your intimate moments together.