BOOK A SMALL VENUE
When you have a small venue and people come to know about it, they will understand that you want to avoid a crowd. It is a subtle hint to those who expect to be invited for it, that you are not ready to host a big wedding.
KEEP THE RITUALS SIMPLE
Most Indian weddings have elaborate rituals – sangeet, mehendi, haldi among other thing. It is better to keep things simple by focusing only on the main wedding rituals or else design them as per the size of the venue as you don’t want to make your guests feel uncomfortable.
HOME IS THE BEST
The most comfortable option is to get married in a cosy home. If your house is not big enough, you can always ask a friend who has a bigger house to help you out. An attached terrace always works best. This also makes sure that you’re not in a situation where you have to explain about restricting the celebration to immediate family and close friends.After the wedding rituals, make sure to take everyone out for an elaborate lunch or dinner to avoid unnecessary speculation.
HAVE MULTIPLE CELEBRATIONS
Everyone expects a huge reception after the wedding, but if you don’t want to have that either, opt for small multiple celebrations. You and your spouse can have separate office parties, while you can also plan one each with extended families from both the sides. Friends can be combined or given separate parties depending on how you both want it. However, ensure that both of you attend all these parties.