In an earlier interview you’d said having a one-night stand is an individual choice. Having said that, do you feel this concept is acceptable in India? How do you think this film will be perceived by the audience?
The fact of the matter is nobody wants to talk about what they did last night. So whether it is accepted or not, I think it definitely exists. Maybe it happens more in urban societies. Nobody goes out for dinner and says, ‘Hey, do you know what I did last night?’ It is rare, unless you have a special bond with a friend. So whether it is accepted or not accepted, whether it is here in India or in the West, people don’t openly talk about their intimate encounters or relationships.
With the exposure to social media people are exposed to bold content whether on TV or films. Do you think it is time people shirk off their inhibitions or barriers…
I think that everything is available for everyone. And India being one of the largest populations, everybody has access to whatever catches their fancy. The youth of this country has access to everything, they are smart and they are curious to know what’s happening around them.
Tell us a little about your film ‘One Night Stand’.
Perhaps, going by the title, people will think, the film is only about one-night stands happening in every single scene. But it’s not like that. The two lead characters have a one-night stand and it turns out to be not the best decision. We touch on the idea of gender equality and why it is fine for a man to have a one-night stand and not for a woman. When you are single and you have fun and do what you want, no one is really affected much. But when you are in a relationship, then it affects every single person around you, even if they don’t find out. It’s a very fine line of breaking that trust.
It is different for a man and a woman… Do you think this holds true?
I think there are double standards across the world. They were not created in India. This battle has been going on for a lot longer than just in today’s time. In the 60s, there were women burning their bras on the streets in the US. Every woman’s fight is different, especially when we want to be independent.
You’ve had some unfortunate experiences with people during an interview. Do you think you have to make an effort to explain yourself and emphasise on the fact that you are an actor?
I don’t preach to people. If someone comes with a preconceived notion, and an opinion about me, then there is nothing I can do about it. I can’t change somebody’s opinion when they have already formed one. If by the end of their meeting me, they have changed their mind, it’s wonderful. I can’t tell people over and over again, ‘Hey I am a real person, I too have feelings. I am an artiste, I am an entertainer’. I can’t do that, because sometimes people have already made up their mind.
There have been a lot of Bollywood stars who have taken a stand for you, have spoken up for you…
I’ve noticed in the last six to eight months, there has been a very interesting change. Maybe because people have started realising that I am not just here today and leaving tomorrow. I would like to believe that I have a good reputation as far as professionalism goes. I am not that kind of a girl who is outgoing and bounces around at a party. In fact, at a party I am generally shy and an introvert. Lately, I’ve noticed that people have walked up to me, they’ve made conversations and have been very nice. I was never expecting that, because of the things that has happened over the last five years. It’s been nice and surprising.
Was it difficult for you to fit in to this industry?
I am still not clear if I fit in Bollywood even today. I see these people on TV, on red carpets, award shows and I find them so cool. And I look at myself and feel I am not so cool. When I entered the film industry here, I did feel isolated. One of the award shows I went to, no one wanted to go on stage with me. It was such a weird feeling, someone hates you that much… or someone dislikes you that much. I don’t believe that is because of me as a person, I think it is just my name.
Who according to you are the hottest actors in Bollywood?
Ranveer Singh is interesting because he has an over-the-top personality. He is also a very nice person. I think Aamir Khan is also very good looking.