Maneka’s views on the question of paternity leave have variously been called `cynical’, `flippant’ and `appalling’ just to name a few descriptors. Many different kind of reasons have been cited for these characterisations. A position like Maneka’s is seen to potentially reinforce gender stereotypes (it is the woman’s job to look after the children, men should focus on `work’). It does not recognise that some change is already underway , and that not all men conform to an archetype of an earlier time. It accentuates the difference between men and women in the workplace and further de-motivates employers from hiring women, particularly when read along with the new Maternity Bill, which increases maternity leave from 12 to 26 weeks. Conceptually , it shies away from using legislation to bring about desired social change; if such an argument were to be accepted, no discontinuous legislation whether to do with racial equality, inheritance laws, or caste discrimination would have passed muster.
And yet, one would be deluding oneself if one failed to recognise that the minister is painting a largely realistic picture of the situation as it stands in the country today . While it is certainly true that more men today are willing to share the responsibility of bringing up children, the larger picture is that in aggregate terms, this sharing tends to be very limited in quantity and quite patchy in quality . If that were not the case, the overall gender picture in India would have been much healthier. As the minister argues, if indeed men feel the need to participate more actively in the task of child-rearing, there should some evidence of such a need.That paternity leave would turn into a holiday for men is an argument that could have been overlooked given the larger statement such an action would make about shared responsibility, but for the reality that in many cases, having the husband at home could actually increase the woman’s burden. Even in instances where the men intend to be of help, the larger cultural ecosystem has created a pattern of expectations whereby the woman could still end up looking after her husband in addition to the newborn.
The relationship between existing social norms and the forces of change has always been a tense one. A vital element that is missing from the mix today is the internal impulse within traditional systems for reform.