Answer by Dr Ashima Pruthi: I am so disturbed after knowing about your state, but I am glad that you fought all the suicidal thoughts and decided to give life another chance. I understand that some relationships seem so eternal that it becomes impossible to move on after they have ended, but at the same time you need to observe the fact that your ex-girlfriend cheated on you and has happily moved on, while you are still stuck in the past. It will be best for you to move on by getting away for a little while – take a holiday, do some self introspection, take up some hobby or join some community service.
Also, besides distracting yourself with one of the above mentioned things, you must also resolve to not look back, just the way you resolved to live. Believe me, there’s nothing bigger than taking control of your life. If none of these activities help you forget her, try visiting a psychologist and talk it out because your hurtful past needs an outlet, don’t just keep it inside you anymore