Answer by Dr Seema Hingoranny: Well, in my personal practice as a psychologist, I often teach my clients a healthy concept called ‘Boundary Management’. It means that you need to compartmentalize your boundaries well with your friends and romantic attachments. Sometimes, we get carried away and include our friends everywhere, you need to stop doing that. Talking to your friend will not help, as she might get defensive and quite obviously she has anyway denied everything. Be confident about your relationship and don’t let insecurity erode your self-worth. Diplomatically cut the strings with your friend, if you feel she is being too intrusive in your relationship. Such relationships are not worth it.